Forget work/life balance, let’s talk about Career Harmony
Published in issue 34 of Drinks Trade magazine
I recently attended the Women in Drinks networking event with guest speaker Jane Caro. In her engaging speech Jane mentioned her dislike for the term ‘work/life balance’. As she pointed out, ‘does that mean you don’t have a life when at work?’. It got me thinking.
When terms like this are so engrained in our vernacular (and part of everyday HR speak), it’s easy to adopt the term work/life balance and literally demarcate our lives rather than challenge it. I must admit I have (for many years) referenced the notion of work/life without contemplating its implication, until now.
Surely if ‘life’ is only the time outside of work, we have done something wrong. Why are we working 5 out of 7 days of the week with only two days for life? That doesn’t seem right. Surely the reason professional people work hard and often long hours is because work is actually a rewarding and important component of what makes up our lives.
What about an alternative?
My view is that work should be a place that brings you joy, that develops your mind and challenges you and as a bonus, provides the essential financial reward required to fund the other elements of your life, whilst accommodating family, friends, hobbies etc. A career built around richness, engagement and balance should “harmonise” with the rest of your life.
As for ‘work’, for those that have passion and enthusiasm for what they do, “career” should be the defining noun. It’s not about simply doing a job, it’s about growing and developing a professional path that can last a lifetime. Whilst it may not define who you are, it can be a reflection of what you can achieve, which can give you an immense sense of purpose.
When bringing these two words together, Career Harmony as a term captures the essence of what most of us strive to achieve in the broader quest for happiness. It’s not about separating work and life, it’s about living a life that harmoniously facilitates a career and other interests.
Having struggled to find that ‘work/life balance’ as a working mother, the term Career Harmony works better for me. Perhaps by phrasing the term differently we can start to think refreshingly about the relationship career plays in our whole life. Career Harmony…who doesn’t want that?






